Saturday, September 18, 2010

I'm the hero of the story, don't need to be saved

Photos by Hannah Bacalla

BTS & Makeup by Michael Chavez
wearing Topshop ribbon tank, RenegadeLovers bandage skirt, Yves Identify jacket, SoulePhenomenon B&W wedges

Again, thank you for all the supportive feedback Ive been getting from all sides. I guess you never really realize how many people read your blog until you go through a breakup and end up with a flood of emails from your readers. Thank you thank you so much! I have gotten quite a few questions for the Vlog I have been planning, so hang in there for that. When I'm camera ready, I'm getting on it, promise!

Lately I have been spending a lot of my time with my girls, picking apart the lessons life has taught us.. I'm sure they are sick of hearing about my issues, but they continue to stand by me and listen to my incessant and probably pointless rantings - after all, they are quite possibly the most amazing bunch of females in my life. Girl power should not be underestimated. Melancholy still catches up with me from time to time.. but like I keep telling my other girlfriends who are going through the same thing; deal with the raw emotions, no matter how painful, but don't hang on to it. Let go, get out there, meet people and move on.. but don't go looking for a new love that will replace the gaping hole in your heart - that's just a recipe for disaster. You cant replace one with the other, but you can open yourself up to something new, something with the potential to turn into something so beautiful, it takes your breath away each time, but don't be in any rush. Take the time to learn to love yourself first, and everything else will follow. Just remember.. "Sometimes good things fall apart, so better things can fall together."


15 comments:

nym wales said...

this blog inspired me since i just broke up with my boyfriend today. :)
thanks dane

Gessyl Enchanted said...

"Sometimes good things fall apart, so better things can fall together."
nice.. :)

daisychain said...

holy amazing, dane x

cherie said...

amazing pictures and beautiful you as always ;) hang in there

Kookie B. said...

oh my effin g! i LOVE this!!! *bowing*

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Allie said...

You are so beautiful and multi talented. Things happen so that other potentially better things can happen.

xoxoxo

KD faustino said...

love this- "deal with the raw emotions, no matter how painful, but don't hang on to it. Let go, get out there, meet people and move on.. but don't go looking for a new love that will replace the gaping hole in your heart." totally agree! looking fab!

Olive Jopia-Abarquez said...

Love your look in here. As always. I mean someone else could wear the same clothes and look sloppy but not you! =) I'll keep dropping by. Again, I wish I have you in my first NYC photoshoot.

PS.
I dunno if you have come across Glamourai. I found her when I visited Karlas'Closet in your links. Inspiring as you are.

the two miss fits said...

My gosh Dane, you look amazingggg! Just been through a breakup? You don't look it--at all! You are such a supermodel!

ediot said...

such brilliant shots- and the outfit is so nice.
wow. these shots blew me away right now.
hope youre having a better time now- you look so fierce and strong in these photos.
take care

xx

M said...

WOw. AMAZING SHOES!

Thanks for stopping by Belles&Rebelles and for your kind comment!!! Just checked out your blog (s) and LOVE THIS ONE! It's awesome, so consider me your newest follower! very cool! love your style and your designs! Great job!

xx.M

www.bellesandrebelles.blogspot.com

Francesca said...

love ur blog! thanks for commenting on mine

xoxo,
F

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inkarlcerating said...

goddddddd! ang ganda! amazing more outfit posts pls!

stacey kelly said...

you have pretty rad style :)

xo

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ellenreviews said...

Fab shoes! Looks like lady gaga! :)

followed you. :)